Shaila, a teen girl of Dhaka, Bangladesh passing some worried time. She is in love and her boyfriend wants her to go bed.
The culture of Bangladesh is changing with the touch of western lifestyle. Shaila is in great denger. She is facing a commotion of mixed thoughts. Her nupital excitement is climaxing. On one hand, while she`s waiting stepping into a realm of new relations, on the other, her `virginity-status` is adding to her extra pressure. Will she remain virgin till 25 or go to bed with boyfriend now?
Saila is getting sleepless nights. However, she`s not alone as there are many teen girls face the same dilemmas.
So, is losing one`s virginity before marriage still a big deal? Let`s explore…
Kakoli, a student of Dhaka’s renowned school, heralds the importance of open ended communication, adding that relationship only improved after sharing of thoughts and honor to each other not physical relationship in teenage.
Shuvo, a 20- year-old, university student, revealing virginity is valuable. We should value it and not to make psychical relation until you commit each other.
Mahima, finds the answer in the changing social trends, when she says, “In today`s age, I Think we should follow strict religious rules and encourage others to be a virgin because as it has become a trend to lose one`s virginity even without love.
What to do in teenage love
If you are in love, share your creative thought with partner. Do something big that shines your future.
If you like someone tell straightly and send her/him gifts. Don’t take it physically; on special occasion surprise her/him with your talent and gifts.
Not room dating
When you are alone in home don’t call him/her to romance.